EMDR: go beyond traditional talk therapy.
Find peace of mind. Feel at ease in your body.
Always being “on guard” is exhausting.
Even when you know nothing is wrong, it’s hard to relax. Maybe you have certain memories that pop into your head and cause you to feel the same things you felt when those events first occurred—like they’re happening all over again. Or, maybe you don’t know specifically what’s making you so uneasy, just that you can never seem to feel settled in your mind or body.
MAYBE YOU’RE TIRED OF…
Things setting you off when you least expect it and causing you to react in ways you’re not proud of.
Sharing your story over and over again but never feeling any better.
Feeling stuck in the past, unable to put what’s happened behind you.
EMDR can help you feel better & move forward.
This evidence-based method helps troubling memories get “unstuck” in your brain so you don’t have to keep reliving how you felt in the past.
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EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a natural and effective way to heal from trauma. This therapy method helps you process and reframe disturbing experiences, allowing your mind to heal—much like your body does from physical wounds. By unblocking your brain’s processing system, EMDR transforms the emotional impact of traumatic events, turning feelings of shame or fear into thoughts of empowerment and survival. If the details are too difficult to talk through, that’s okay. You don’t need to retell the entire story for EMDR to work—it’s designed to help without causing additional distress.
During EMDR, we use bilateral stimulation (BLS) to help your brain process memories. This can involve moving your eyes, listening to sounds, or feeling vibrations. BLS keeps part of your attention in the present while another part of your brain safely revisits the past. This dual awareness helps you reprocess traumatic memories without feeling retraumatized, providing a safe and effective path to healing.
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We’ll spend our first session or two creating a treatment plan together. During these sessions, I’ll learn about your history. We’ll identify how past experiences are affecting your current life, and decide what issues you want to address with EMDR. We’ll pinpoint specific memories to target and look at the strengths and support systems you have within yourself and around you that can help you through this process. We’ll also define a positive state goal—how you want to handle these issues in the future and how you want to feel at the end of our work together.
Next, we’ll prepare for reprocessing. I’ll explain the process in detail, set expectations, and address any questions or concerns you might have. You’ll get a chance to practice using bilateral stimulation (BLS) before we dive into reprocessing. We’ll also work on building up your inner strengths to help you handle the emotions tied to these memories. Preparation might take one session, but some clients benefit from additional preparation time—we’re moving at your pace, so you’ll get to decide.
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Then, we’ll begin reprocessing the targeted memories. We’ll start by assessing a memory, identifying the negative belief associated with it, and the positive belief you want to hold. You’ll think about the memory while engaging in sets of BLS, which last about a minute each. Between sets, I’ll ask you what you notice—thoughts, feelings, sensations, or images. You can share as much or as little as you want. We’ll know desensitization is working when the memory no longer feels disturbing. Then we’ll reinforce the positive belief with BLS until it feels completely true. I’ll ask you to scan your body for any lingering disturbances and we’ll process those too. In the following sessions, we’ll ensure the memory is no longer impacting you as it once did and move on to the next target, if needed. Once all memory targets are reprocessed, we’ll solidify your future positive state goal, making it feel true and achievable.
IF YOU’RE FEELING TRAPPED BY FEELINGS FROM THE PAST…
Know that there is hope for a lighter, brighter future.
Is EMDR right for you?
EMDR works well for those who…
Feel stuck in life, like something is holding them back from living the way they want to
Understand that they’ve experienced trauma, but no amount of talking about it helps them feel better
Have memories from the past that keep popping up and causing anxiety, panic, or unease
Have recently experienced something—like an accident, sudden loss, medical procedure, crime, or other disturbing events
Get situational anxiety around things like driving, dentist or doctor’s appointments, or other daunting tasks and want to shake it
Feel like their thoughts and feelings don’t match or that their reactions are uncontrollable
HOW IT CAN HELP
Through EMDR, you can…
Be unburdened from the pain of the past & more present in your life.
Feel worthy, capable, and free from your fears.
Be assured of your right to exist as you are & empowered to reach your goals.
Feel more safe, settled, and grounded in mind and body.
Your story is welcome here.
It’s time to stop dragging the past into the present.
Questions?
FAQs
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EMDR may not be an effective treatment for those who are actively abusing drugs or alcohol or anyone under the age of 21. Additionally, anyone currently engaged in active legal matters or insurance claims may want to wait to resolve those things before beginning treatment. Since this work will be done virtually, it’s also important that you have a private space and reliable internet connection.
(*Note: If you are under the age of 21, I can refer you to providers who work with younger clients.) -
The length of EMDR therapy can vary depending on individual needs and the complexity of the issues being addressed. Some people might experience relief in a few sessions, while others may need more extensive treatment over several months. On average, it could take anywhere from 6 to 12 sessions, but we can discuss expectations for your specific needs when we begin working together.
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EMDR is an evidence-based treatment and is considered quite effective for many people, especially those dealing with trauma and PTSD. Research shows that it can significantly reduce symptoms associated with trauma and help individuals process traumatic memories in a way that allows them to move forward. While results can vary, many find relief and improvement in their emotional well-being.
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Trauma can have a profound impact on both the brain and the body. It can alter brain regions involved in emotion regulation, memory, and stress response, leading to symptoms like hypervigilance, flashbacks, and emotional numbness. Physically, trauma can manifest as chronic pain, tension, and other stress-related health issues, as the body stores the distress and remains in a heightened state of alert. EMDR can help your brain reprocess traumatic memories and heal, and allow you to feel safe in your body.